There was a time, not too long ago, that I found a certain guy attractive. And he is physically SO gorgeous. But then he was immature and insecure (lol rhyme) and just… unideal on so many levels. And today I realized that when I look at him, I feel no attraction.
I knew I shouldn’t be with him from the start.. but the attraction blinded me from what the logical choice was. But now that the attraction is gone, I’m just like nooooooo thanks. (cause my momma taught me betta than that)
I seriously LOVE how that happens. I mean, the reverse is definitely better- when you’re on the fence about a guy, but then they are amazing and cool and endearing and BOOM! you find them so cute. So this is kinda the negative version of that happy scenario. But in this case, I’m glad my mind is self-preserving. Thanks for looking out for me, brain! And somehow taking away all the appeal of this beautiful but harmful man.